Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Foreplay often doesn't get enough credit — not to mention time or attention. In one study of heterosexual couples published in the Journal of Sexual Research , both women and men reported that their ideal duration of foreplay was 20 minutes.
Do you feel like you're failing at this romance thing? Has your girlfriend seemed really turned off of a physical relationship lately? Maybe you haven't gotten to that stage in your relationship yet but you're not really sure how to start. No matter your situation, there are a couple of things that you can do to improve your chances of success. By setting the scene and doing a little old-fashioned wooing, you can seduce your girlfriend and improve your sexual relationship.
Want to know what men find sexy? Here's a hint—high heels and miniskirts aren't the only things that drive them wild. We asked real guys to share their most memorable seduction scenes, and found out a little creativity goes a long way. Add your personal touch to a night together, and you'll have him begging for more. Whether you're in a relationship or not, take a cue from these 20 honest answers about what guys really love!